Written by Sandie Barrie Blackley, Speech-Language Pathologist
Published on June 24, 2024
This is Part One of a two-part series about what report cards might mean (or might not mean) for the struggling reader and writer.
Many parents of struggling readers and writers have questions about their child’s school performance. Hearing that your child’s teacher is satisfied with their performance should feel reassuring, but it can be confusing if you feel your child is not reaching their full potential at school.
Reading tests vary greatly from school to school and may not show the whole picture of your child’s skills. Children with dyslexia, including those with stealth dyslexia, often develop coping strategies to read passages accurately. These can include guessing words from context or using a strong vocabulary. These skills can mask their difficulties until 3rd or 4th grade when decoding problems become more obvious.
2. Your child’s strengths might make them “slip through the cracks.”
Children with dyslexia often make up for their weaknesses with strengths like a strong vocabulary and high emotional intelligence. They may be bright or even gifted, which can cause inconsistencies in their school performance. This makes it hard for parents and teachers to identify the root cause of their literacy struggles. Teachers may not be well-trained to recognize learning differences.
3. You see your child struggling at home, despite good reports from school.
As a parent, you might see more than what the school reports. Your child might manage well at school but come home exhausted and frustrated. They might express feelings of not being as smart as their peers. Homework can become a daily battle, with your child struggling to complete assignments they should understand. You might see increased anxiety and avoidance of reading, writing, and homework.
4. The school dismisses the signs of dyslexia you are seeing.
Public schools are not required to test for dyslexia with federal funds. Instead, they test for eligibility for special education services, which is not the same as diagnostic testing. Due to limited training and support, school staff may miss the signs of dyslexia. Even if they recognize the signs, they often lack the resources to provide individualized dyslexia help.
5. Your child is given another label, such as “behavioral difficulties.”
Children with dyslexia may show behaviors like immaturity, being the “class clown,” or causing trouble. They may also have challenges with organization that make them seem disorganized or inattentive. Teachers might assume that because your child does well in other areas, their literacy struggles are due to a lack of effort, leading to labels like “lazy.”
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